memilih atau dipilih?!

Assalamualaikum ..

selalu tak terfikir whenever u all sat quietly, especially girl who actually need to get started in a relationship? Might be it sound like people who likes to dream rite? but in fact we would have thought even sekali sekala.hee .. i own all of this a lot of thought over the past this. just becoz too much facing this ordeal.

remember one day juz 3 days afterwards my sister going back to jordan, she's calling me and discuss seriously about this topic.when we're talking and talk in quite a long time. she's have remind me Something that was very moving me. along, the guy is like a creatures from mars, and the women are from the venus. u have to read the books, Then u will know how a guy actually.

bila teringat balik apa yang angah cakap, buatkan i realize memang dah masanya i kena jadi betul-betul kuat. bukan sekadar berada di awang-awangan lagi. orang selalu kata, kita hanya akan temui cinta sejati bila kita betul-betul dapat rasakan dari hati. tapi betul ke? by the way, now i betul-betul percaya "phrase" tu memang betul in shaa Allah, tapi yang penting ialah kita doa. setelah lalui macam - macam dugaan, i nak share something which for me sebenarnya kind of pengalaman hidup. "rahsia untuk bahagia"

- jaga betul-betul sangat -sangat hubungan dengan Allah the everlasting love. u konow why? sebabnya bila kita jaga hubungan kita denganNya secara automatik in shaa Allah we will not lalai. bak kata orang bagai dibuai mimpi selalu

- then, if u're far away from your parents make sure they know what u do, bukan sekali sekala, tapi setiap kali nak keluar. sama macam bila kita ada kat rumah, mesti kita akan minta permission daripada mereka before hang out with friends rite? macam tu jugak bila keluar dengan si dia.

-be responsible dengan tanggungjawab and amanah-amanah utama kita, like kerja, tugasan, ang anything else yang memang kita kena buat. jangan sampai orang lain ingatkan, that will show u're really irresposible person, nanti mula la orang kata, tu la bercinta lagi..heee

selalunya manusia akan melihat dari sudut yang sama dengan manusia lain, atau pun terlalu memikirkan stigma semasa masyarakat disekeliling, sampaikan satu saat kita tidak merasa puas dengan kehidupan kita kerana membuat sesuatu perkara hanya berdasarkan apa orang kata, bukan apa yang kita rasa.

never think what will people said, juz think what u're really want